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Reader Let’s talk about Mike. Mike’s a married dad of FIVE… and sharp-minded communicator. Sales exec. Steady hand in a high-stakes business.On paper, you’d think he was crushing it. But when we first connected, he was overwhelmed.Trying to be everything for everyone.Carrying the emotional weight of a strained home and high-level responsibilities at work—without a clear way forward. He said things like: “I’m just trying to hold it all together.” “It’s hard to feel like a leader when I’m…

Happy Valentine’s Day… or as Nikki and I also call it: our Divorc-a-versary That’s right! 18 years ago today, our divorce “finalized”. Hm. Yep. We both, without planning it, gave each other cards today with that exact phrase. (Proof attached because who would believe it otherwise?!) We laughed hard about that. Here’s the kicker: We still believe in love. More than ever, actually. Because love isn’t about a perfect, straight-line journey. It’s not about avoiding pain, or pretending things…

Reader Have you ever decided to do something at the very last minute and you were SO glad you did? I was within 4 days of boarding a military chartered plane (rifle and 9mm in hand) that was to escort my team on a combat tour of war-ridden Afghanistan. Our unit had already mobilized (began wartime prep) so most of us were without our families, so we could focus on the mission at hand. And wouldn’t you know, that’s exactly when my two-time wife dropped in from out-of-town to “say goodbye” just…

Hey there,I want to share the quick version of the story behind The Revamp Your Vision Challenge & Masterclass with you.Why create this program, investing countless hours and resources? While my primary aim is to assist you in your divine vision, my commitment goes deeper.The 7 Pillars of Revolutionary Freedom™ provide a framework for living a bright, abundant life. This journey began with a chance encounter at a networking event in Michigan.There, I met Don, a successful entrepreneur who had…

Happy Friday Reader Depression, Drugs, Affairs, Divorce, Bed-wetting! Okay, now that I have your attention, Adam here from The Revamp Your Vision Challenge with a quick story for you. Why did I create Revolutionary Freedom and The Revamp Your Vision Challenge… what’s the story behind all this hard work and dedication? Of course, I’m all about helping you get great results with your vision. That’s my #1 goal! But my commitment and dedication to help you take confident action and avoid stopping…

Hey hey hey What’s up Reader! I hope your holiday and new year have been great! I used to really overthink every New Year: -I feel like I’m in the same place I was last year, what am I missing? -Am I gonna spend another year tolerating this thing? How do I not? -Isn’t it time I’m doing something bigger to help more people? I’m trying 🤷🏻♂️ Something about resolutions always felt like they belonged in January with confetti still stuck to them, but what about the other eleven months? Since the…

Why is this happening? Have you ever noticed when you’re trying to do something that really matters, it seems… opposed? You almost get the feeling like, Is this thing cursed? Maybe it’s something as simple as having a great holiday season with the beautiful crazies we call family. Reflection… Can you relate to this… Over the course of about 12 weeks centering around the start of the school year (early August in Florida), we experienced several major life changes. Any one of them would…

Q: Which side of a turkey has more feathers?(Answer at the end of this email) Hey Reader Happy Thanksgiving! I’m sending you a special podcast episode just for today. Within the first 40 seconds you’ll hear the top key to being thankful for whatever is in your life, even challenges. Warning: This episode contains – Betrayal Gossip Church hurt Deadbeat dads Cussing & Turkey Talk! I hope you let this play while you’re prepping for all day’s goodness! Remember, This episode is only good for…

3 Cheat Codes for 4X Results A story to set us up That word alone might sound alien to some, M-E-N-T-O-R. Before I had one, I thought people who had mentors shaved their heads, changed their names, put on yellow robes and leather sandals, learned an ancient form of Martial Arts and moved to the mountains of Asia. Seriously! My perception changed when I had the privilege of falling under the mentorship of a successful entrepreneur named Don. I was in the middle of devastating destruction in my…

Reader Hey Sometimes, in my journaling, I write directly to the Adam I used to be. (Super helpful tip for processing, healing and moving forward) This is one of those kind of entries, adapted only enough for you to read without getting confused. So on this beautiful Sunday, enjoy! image of my wife Nikki – Treasure Island, Florida #blog #story #restoration #fun I used to dread Sundays. It’s May 28, 2019. I turned 40 a week ago today. For a few months I’ve had several instances of being nudged…

3 Cheat Codes for 4X Results A story to set us up That word alone might sound alien to some, M-E-N-T-O-R. Before I had one, I thought people who had mentors shaved their heads, changed their names, put on yellow robes and leather sandals, learned an ancient form of Martial Arts and moved to the mountains of Asia. Seriously! My perception changed when I had the privilege of falling under the mentorship of a successful entrepreneur named Don. I was in the middle of devastating destruction in my…

Reader Hey Sometimes, in my journaling, I write directly to the Adam I used to be. (Super helpful tip for processing, healing and moving forward) This is one of those kind of entries, adapted only enough for you to read without getting confused. So on this beautiful Sunday, enjoy! image of my wife Nikki – Treasure Island, Florida #blog #story #restoration #fun I used to dread Sundays. It’s May 28, 2019. I turned 40 a week ago today. For a few months I’ve had several instances of being nudged…

Reader I found that sometimes I set her off… just by the way I approached her. And its happened the other way around too. We were really confused and frustrated. We each knew we weren’t trying to be like enemies toward each other, but it happened regardless. But then we started figuring things out. It’s kinda like losing your phone and using that alert that makes it beep so you can find it. You can hear the alert from across the house but you don’t know exactly where it’s coming from. It…

Reader I found that sometimes I set her off… just by the way I approached her. And its happened the other way around too. We were really confused and frustrated. We each knew we weren’t trying to be like enemies toward each other, but it happened regardless. But then we started figuring things out. It’s kinda like losing your phone and using that alert that makes it beep so you can find it. You can hear the alert from across the house but you don’t know exactly where it’s coming from. It…

After a small-but-mighty series of serendipitous events– including a late-night pitcher of beer with a red-headed, dread-locked Irish rock musician–I was introduced to someone who was supposed to be able to help me get out of my nursing job and into entrepreneurship. I wanted to provide a better quality of living for myself, my kids and Nikki too, down the road, even if I wasn’t going to live with them. While leaving my nursing career may have been the hook that drew me in, it was his…

A few months later, our divorce was nearing finalization with the court. One particular icy night in Michigan’s January, I was lying in the bed of the woman who wasn’t my wife. I had become a joyless, weakened shell of my former, vibrant self. I remember laying there, on my right side, staring off the edge of the bed through the doorway into the hall where a plugin night light was on. The soft warm glow produced a shadow across that lightly-stained hardwood plank floor. The edge of that…

It was before dawn, the morning of September 15th. In downtown Detroit, summer was gasping for breath, as fall began to squeeze. I was standing in the birthing room holding my brand new baby girl… my wife’s and my first daughter. The only place darker than that pre-sunrise sky was the life I had been living the previous 3 ½ years – for within me, there were no glimmering stars. In this divine moment, a moment meant for pure elation, I was filled with shame and disgust. <<< Rewind 10 days You…

Turn on your RADAR I kept getting results I didn’t want but I didn’t know why… Friction in my marriage Inconsistency with money Inconsistent physical and emotional well-being Sometimes I’d nail it and get the desired job or relational harmony but it was almost like it was an accident. I didn’t know how to do it repeatedly, on purpose. Most of the time, trying to get to where I wanted to go felt like I was blind-folded, trying to pin that damn tail on the donkey, like I’m back at my eighth…

RE: stress, anxiety & [unhealthy] addiction Here’s a valuable question I get asked every time I do a speaking gig or guest appear on a podcast– QUESTION: What tools have you found useful to reduce stress, anxiety and/or unhealthy addictions in your life? ANSWER: Transforming my perception. young woman/old woman The saying goes: “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” **Multiple tools work in concert to make that happen. A few of the most immediately…

Lean in. [copied/pasted from my personal notes – with slight editing for easier reading here] Lean In Sunday 7.16.2023 I was coming up on the curve of Waves End, about to run past Gage’s buddy, Jarrett’s house. I get an impression… “Lean in.” I probably heard KB rap something that sparked that. Some of life feels lean to me right now. As in parched, wearisome or confused, even lonely. Professional work, the intimate sense of the Spirit’s presence, motivation. This is probably spiritual. It’s…

As we hit the weekend, I wanted to leave you with something that will make your environment better… more fun, more peace… less drama and triggered tempers. Plus, you’ll feel great! Gratitude is the holy grail of human emotion. (I love Indiana Jones) I’ve learned how important it is to slow down, breathe and count my blessings. Doesn’t mean I don’t forget or mess it up in my humanness, because I do. I found a watch that helps with being more present in the moment. And I’m using a ring that…

Apollo Beach, FLA Thursday afternoonFebruary 2021 Hey, Reader It’s Adam… and YES we’re alive. How are you? Truly great I hope. Fyi, you’re in our regular prayers, so you flourishing is something Nikki & I root for. If you’ve been supporting us for a while or just sending good vibes from a distance, I really appreciate you. COVID ripped through the house recently, leaving no permanent damage, thank God. Just a few sleepy taste buds, which works out well for cutting calories 😉 Community Update…