From friction to FLOW: Finding hidden sabotage

Adam Kasix

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I found that sometimes I set her off…

just by the way I approached her.

And its happened the other way around too.

We were really confused and frustrated. We each knew we weren’t trying to be like enemies toward each other, but it happened regardless.

But then we started figuring things out.

It’s kinda like losing your phone and using that alert that makes it beep so you can find it.

You can hear the alert from across the house but you don’t know exactly where it’s coming from. It can be maddening, especially when it comes to your most important human relationship.

But then you get hot on the trail, your ears picking up the direction of the sound and you feel like you’re about to find the long lost treasure after a grueling search!

That might be a little dramatic when it comes to a phone but it’s not at all when it comes to figuring out what keeps bringing friction when you don’t want it.

Once you discover what’s been preventing you from finding fluid harmony, you know you’re about to find the life together you’ve been looking for.

Think of this short video as that alert to help you get on the right path toward ending the unintentional sabotage.

And trust me when I say when you get there, together, it’s even more gratifying than finding your lost phone (as hard to believe as that is 😉

My wife and I had a helluva time working through our differing states of energy, ending assumptions and being more mindful of our approach with each other.

But we’re making it! No, we’re not perfect and things still happen.

But now we’re equipped & AWARE… and unwanted situations are becoming WAY LESS common.

If you’ve had repeated stumbling blocks in your relationship, don’t miss this.

We used to ask each other at different points…

How long will we tolerate this? This less-than version of what we deserve?

Because whatever we tolerate WE GET TO KEEP.

We’re not getting younger but there’s a lot of life out in front of us!

Nikki and I have demanded an awesome life together.

Life will try to break you apart. You gotta demand it.

If you crave a smooth relational flow but need just a bit of help getting past some barriers, I have some white space for you.

The land of Revolutionary Freedom is just beyond the land of Scared to Death.

Keep up the good fight, you’re on your way!

Enjoy this vid, as I’m certain you’ll pick up some tools from our messy life.

Part 3 Silent Killers comes next week.

You got this.

Your buddy in the valley,

Adam

Ps. If someone popped in your head you think this could help, please forward it to them. It could save a household.

Pss. Don’t miss the outtakes!

Listen to the audio podcast…

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About the Author

Adam Kasix receives insights that fuse the supernatural and the super practical. This happens on a multi-weekly basis. He writes most of them down. He publishes some of them here.

Adam believes in the family home, in its various forms. As part of his mission to take back the home, he helps Guy become a man, by confronting his beast so life can open up for him … And sleep can be awesome again.

Adam hosts the Instigator Freed’em! Podcast. He’s really into his two-time wife, Nikki (and her hips). After 22 years raising kids, he’s still obsessed with being a better dad. And Jesus is ruling more of his heart than ever before.

“… I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep …”

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