Reader
Let’s talk about Mike.
Mike’s a married dad of FIVE… and sharp-minded communicator. Sales exec. Steady hand in a high-stakes business.
On paper, you’d think he was crushing it.
But when we first connected, he was overwhelmed.
Trying to be everything for everyone.
Carrying the emotional weight of a strained home and high-level responsibilities at work—without a clear way forward.
He said things like:
- “I’m just trying to hold it all together.”
- “It’s hard to feel like a leader when I’m exhausted and second-guessing myself.”
- “Sometimes I hear my mom’s voice come out of my mouth… and I hate it.”
That last one hit different.
Because Mike’s conditioning didn’t come from abuse or neglect—it came from love.
But that love was heavy. Pressurized. Full of unspoken expectations and self-sacrifice.
And somewhere along the way, Mike stopped being his own man.
That moment in session—when he recognized her voice coming out of his mouth—
It was like he finally saw it:
The pattern.
The pressure.
The invisible identity he’d inherited… but never chose.
That’s when things shifted.
Mike began practicing new boundaries.
He stopped over-explaining. Started leading with calm confidence.
And now? His VP sends him to fly out and lead high-level client conversations—because he finally owns his voice.
He’s not perfect. He’s present. And powerful. And clear.
You deserve that too.
➡️ Click here to book your personal clarity + identity call.
Because identity work isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about becoming who you were always meant to be—before pressure or conditioning rewired you.
Let’s get you realigned, or maybe aligned for the First time!
Let’s eliminate the sabotage in your life.
Let’s help you step into the IDENTITY God actually designed you with.
Just Decide,
Adam
Here’s that link for a coffee chat
chat.adamkasix.com/coffee
Whatcha waitin’ for?
(that’s Mike, on the left, telling you he’s not “special” and you should set up a call)
Looking for something else?
Email adam@adamkasix.com
